Have you ever noticed how “falling
out of love” doesn’t usually happen in a fiery explosion, but slips away in
silence—like a boat drifting from its dock until you suddenly realize it’s
halfway across the harbor? That’s the piercing image behind Jesus’ words in
Revelation 2:4: “Nevertheless I have this against you, that you have left your
first love.” Left—not lost. Lost suggests accident. Left suggests neglect. The
Ephesian church hadn’t staged a rebellion, renounced Christ, or gone wild. They
simply drifted… while still checking all the right boxes.
What shocks me most is who
Jesus says this to. Not the spiritually lazy. Not the spiritually hostile. But
the spiritually busy. These were the believers with packed calendars, sharp
doctrine, steady endurance, and impressive resumes. They were truth warriors.
Yet truth without love hardens into cement. It can build walls or fortresses,
but it cannot warm a heart. Jesus essentially says, “You’re doing everything
for Me—but not with Me.”
And doesn’t that sound
painfully familiar today? We live in a whirlwind of hurry. Phones buzz, minds
race, souls shrink. We’ve become pros at efficiency but rookies at affection.
We defend faith more than we delight in Christ. We know about Him more than we
sit with Him. Our hearts risk becoming theological filing cabinets—organized,
accurate, and ice-cold.
But notice Jesus’ response.
He doesn’t scold. He calls. With the tenderness of a Groom and the authority of
a King, He names the drift so He can guide the return. His
invitation—“Remember… repent… and do the first works”—is a summons back to
where love once burned bright. Back to unhurried prayer. Back to open-Bible
wonder. Back to worship that wasn’t rushed. Back to obedience that felt like
joy, not duty.
Sometimes the deepest
healing doesn’t come from learning something brand new, but from recovering
something beautifully old. Jesus isn’t asking you to fake emotion. He’s
inviting you to refocus attention. Love grows where attention rests. If your
heart feels distant, He is closer than you imagine. If your affection feels
faint, the flame is easier to rekindle than you think. He isn’t condemning your
drift—He’s calling your name across the water before you drift too far to hear
Him.
May the Lord draw your heart back to your first love, restore the freshness of fellowship with Christ, and warm your soul with renewed affection day by day.













