Today's Reading - Proverbs 26

 

Put Out The Fire

Here, Solomon uses wood and fire to teach a necessary lesson on the inflammatory nature of gossip and talebearing, as opposed to the harmony and peace that accompanies the pure words of a righteous man. God cares about the words that come out of your mouth.

Contention is like a fire; it heats the spirit, burns up all that is good, and puts families and societies into disharmony.  Gossip (“talebearing”) is the fuel that intensifies the contention – like throwing fuel on a fire. 1 Timothy 5:13 warns of those who “learn to be idlers, going about from house to house, and not only idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not.”

Gossip can take many forms. Perhaps, simply by insinuating improper character of others. Or by revealing secrets, or by murmuring and complaining, or by misrepresenting words and actions. These “tales” can harm relationships, friends, neighbors, and society. Tell-tale chin-wagging does nothing but alienate people from one another and sow discord among them.

How sad when someone’s life is marred by incorrect or tasteless words.  For the Christian, their godly testimony can be severely stained by gossip and talebearing and false accusation. This is why it is so important that we choose our words so carefully. We are exhorted in Ephesians 4:29, “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” We must never be the whisperer who is fueling the fire of discord. Like David, our prayer should constantly be, “Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in your sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.” (Psalm 19:14)

Keep in mind that God not only cares about the words that come out of your mouth, He also cares about the words that go into your ears. The “gossiper” and the “gossipee” are equally the agents of discord. It is not just the one who feeds the fire of contention with their hurtful whispers. Equally to blame is the one who listens to such whispering. “An evildoer listens to wicked lips, and a liar gives ear to a mischievous tongue.” (Proverbs 17:4)

So, be the one who makes “the fire go out.” If someone begins to speak tasteless or improper words, cut them off. Refuse to listen to their gossip. And, never speak idle or hurtful words to others. Strife will as surely cease. Remember, without any fuel source, there is no fire.