March 24 -- "Think Before You Speak"

Today’s Reading: Ecclesiastes 10 & 11

"Think Before You Speak"

The wisdom of King Solomon is renowned in human history. Throughout the writings of Solomon we have an opportunity to learn in the classroom of one of the true geniuses of all time.

Of course, we know the source of Solomon’s great wisdom – God Himself! In a dream, God had invited Solomon to make a request – to ask for anything he desired. Solomon asked for wisdom and knowledge to judge the people fairly and wisely. Yahweh was pleased with his request and granted to Solomon a wise and understanding heart. 

Solomon went on and became famous for his wise judgments. Solomon’s reputation spread to other lands, even as far as Sheba, in Arabia.  Under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, Solomon wrote most of the book of Proverbs, the Song of Solomon, the book of Ecclesiastes, and two Psalms. Within these writings, he captured for us many nuggets of profound wisdom.

Here in Ecclesiastes 10, Solomon makes a wise observation about how one uses their words. He contrasts the “wise man” with the “fool” and tells us that wise words bring favor, but fools are destroyed by their own words. The words of a wise person are gracious and well thought out. His/her words are carefully planned so as to bring acceptance and favor. The fool, on the other hand, just starts blurting out nonsense and ends up in self-destruction.

It has been said that, “A wise man speaks when he has something to say; but a fool speaks when he has to say something.” Biblically, this is so true. God has urged us many times in Scripture to control the words that come out of our mouth, and not to just let anything spew forth. “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” (Ephesians 4:29)

So, how are the words that come from your mouth? Are they good words? Are they wise words? Do they minister grace to your hearers? If not, take a moment now and surrender your tongue to God. Let the Holy Spirit speak His love and truth through you. “Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble.” (Proverbs 21:23)

 

March 23 -- "Squint Your Ears"

Today’s Reading: Ecclesiastes 8 & 9 

"Squint Your Ears"

With all the shouting, it often makes it hard to hear the quiet voice of wisdom. In our society, it seems that riches, status, beauty and power are the things people admire. If a person lacks these, he/she is often ignored or despised, even though his/her quiet words of wisdom may save a nation from ruin or save a soul from darkness and despair. A poor man’s words are often despised and rejected while the voice of the so-called “celebrities” are celebrated and shouted loudly in the public square.

As is often the case with Scripture, God’s truth is quite the opposite of such worldly values. In God’s kingdom, the words of the wise heard in quiet are better than the shouting of the most admired public figure. God’s truth has a way of being the polar opposite of the world’s “truth.” Just listen for a moment to the wise men and women around you – even if you have to “squint” your ears to hear them. Their whispers will prove to be rich with God’s truth and His benefits. In their words you will find life. They are to be heard quietly and patiently.

Contrast the quiet words of the wise with the “shouts of a ruler among fools.” This phrase describes Twitter and Facebook and other social sharing applications amazingly well. With these social media platforms, we give every “ruler,” every “fool,” every “misguided individual” a means to shout their ill-advised and erroneous opinions and advice on every topic imaginable. And, of course, they present their story with such flair and enticing words, it can be easy for anyone to get drawn into their flawed viewpoint.

This is why we must use discernment to tune out the shouting voices of those who are opposed to God and His truth, and to listen intently to those whose quiet words will bring glory to God and wisdom to our souls. It is okay to turn off your social media (even if just for a season). It is okay to ignore the opinion-editorials pushed by the news media outlets. It is okay to turn off the “shouting” of the self-serving politicians and just sit quietly listening for God's words of wisdom.

Be still and listen. Hearken to God’s word. Pay attention to the quiet voices of the wise followers of Christ in your circle. Most importantly, listen closely for the “still, small voice” of God as the Holy Spirit speaks directly to you. Remember Psalm 46:10 – “Be still, and know that I am God! I will be honored by every nation. I will be honored throughout the world.”

March 22 -- "Taking the Bad with the Good"

 Today’s Reading: Ecclesiastes 7

"Taking the Bad with the Good"

Many times in my life, I’ve been told, “you have to take the bad with the good.” This saying means we should accept both the positive and negative aspects of something. It acknowledges that nothing is perfect and those things that seem perfect often do not remain so. Thing don’t always go the way you think they should. So, what should we do when things aren’t going our way? Here in Proverbs 7:14, Solomon advises us to “be” and to “consider.”

Be. “In the day of prosperity be joyful.” Don’t just pretend joy, but genuinely be joyful. Here, we are reminded by God to enjoy those moments of prosperity in life. By this He means not just financial blessing, but blessings of any type. When “good fortune” falls our way, we should relish the situation we are in and soak in the joy of it all. In these times, our response should be one of joyful thankfulness to our Creator and Father in Heaven who has chosen to bless us with a season of pleasure. Remember the Lord in these seasons. Reflect on the truth from Deuteronomy 8:18, “And you shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power to get wealth.”

Consider. “In the day of adversity consider that God has made the one as well as the other.” Here, the Lord is telling us to “take the bad with the good.” There will be seasons of adversity in our lives. We don’t relish these seasons, nor do we want them to come our way. But the truth is – adversity will come to all of us. And when it comes, we must not make the tragic mistake of thinking God has gone out of our lives or that He has abandoned us or that He is being mean to us. He has ordained and established the days, times, and seasons of your life. He has pre-planned your ups and downs. He knew in advance that you would be facing adversity, or poverty, or hardship. During these “bad times” you must be so careful not to “blame” God as though He is allowing something into your life that is not for your benefit. You must recognize that He is using this season of hardship as a time of spiritual growth in your life. During these times, He calls us to deepen our dependence upon Him and to trust Him to resolve our troubles on His schedule and in His mysterious ways.

So… BE joyful when things are good. CONSIDER God’s hand when things are bad. He has foreordained the ups and downs of our lives. He is still here. Trust His hand of love and grace. 

March 21 -- "Finding Your Pot of Gold"

Today’s Reading: Ecclesiasties 5 & 6 

"Finding Your Pot of Gold"

Are rich people really as happy and contented as society makes them out to be? Is there really a “pot of gold at the end of the rainbow”? Writer Rafael Badziag interviewed 21 billionaires for his book "The Billion Dollar Secret." What he found was that some billionaires are happy and some are miserable. And it was not because they had more money that some were happier than others. In fact, those who were happy and contented cited – not their riches – but family, freedom, and relationships as those things which brought them happiness.

The reality is that anyone who loves money and spends their life in pursuit of wealth will never be satisfied with what they have gained. There is an ever-elusive characteristic of living for money and possessions. He who has little, wishes he had more. He who has much, wishes he had more still. It is a never-ending struggle to try to find contentment through material wealth. Life will always be just "not enough." Living for riches and wealth is too big of a burden to bear. And it never satisfies the way we dream it will in our imaginations.

True contentment means to be happy with what you have, who you are, and where you are. It is respecting the reality of the present, appreciating what you have, and enjoying your relationships with God and others. If you count your blessings, rather than your problems, you will realize how beautiful your life is – even if you lack great riches. The Apostle Paul, confirms this truth from Solomon in 1 Timothy 6:8 – “Do your work, and if you have food, clothes, and a place to live, be contented.”  It doesn’t take great riches to live a happy and contented life. Those who believe it does, will end up sorely disappointed with what they find at “the end of the rainbow.”

The Bible urges you to, “Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’” (Hebrews 13:5) Finding contentment in Christ happens when we abide in Him. Jesus confirmed this truth when He said, “Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.” (Luke 12:15)

There is nothing greater than being joyful and content in our relationship with Jesus. He can fill our hearts with joy in both times of leanness and in times of plenty. So, don’t strive for riches. Strive to know Him more intimately and you will find your “pot of gold.” It is only there you will find lasting spiritual and eternal wealth.

March 20 -- "My Times are in His Hands"

Today’s Reading: Ecclesiastes 3 & 4

"My Times are in His Hands"

Just as our planet goes through the seasons of the year, we all go through “seasons” of life. We tend to embrace those seasons of life when there is growth, healing, building up, laughter, dancing, love, and peace. It is during these times that our appreciation for life deepens and our love for God grows. So often, we wish every season could be like these. By human nature, we just want to “let the good times roll.”

The movement of time was created by God and all times and seasons have been foreordained by God (see Genesis 1). The Lord our God has scheduled each day and season of our lives. By his providence God governs the world, and has determined particular things and operations to particular times.

For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven.
A time to be born and a time to die. A time to plant and a time to harvest.
A time to kill and a time to heal. A time to tear down and a time to build up.
A time to cry and a time to laugh. A time to grieve and a time to dance.
A time to scatter stones and a time to gather stones. A time to embrace and a time to turn away.
A time to search and a time to quit searching. A time to keep and a time to throw away.
A time to tear and a time to mend. A time to be quiet and a time to speak.
A time to love and a time to hate. A time for war and a time for peace.

Just like our planet goes through bitterly cold winters and scorching hot summers, we also go thorough seasons of life where times are hard – sometimes agonizingly so. Nobody looks forward to nor enjoys these seasons. We pray fervently for these seasons to come to an end. We often get weary of how long the winter lasts before the warmth of spring comes forth.

But, we must recognize that God has ordained the hard times just as He has the good times of life.  Our loving Heavenly Father has pre-foreordained these seasons for each one of us. Just as we embrace the good times, we must learn to embrace the hard times as well, knowing they come from the hand of God and knowing that it is in these seasons our dependence upon Him grows leading to deeper faith, compassion, and resilience. 

As the Psalmist said, “My times are in Your hands” (Psalm 31:15).  Use these times to remember God’s blessings and to deepen your dependence upon Him. It is during these times that our flesh is burnt away and our spiritual maturity deepens.

Don't despair during the hard times - trust fully in Him and eventually the winter will thaw.

 

March 19 -- "Substance or Smoke?"

 Today’s Reading: Ecclesiastes 1 & 2

"Substance or Smoke?"

The primary viewpoint of the Book of Ecclesiastes is that most people spend their lives, energy, and emotions on pursuing things that will ultimately prove to be meaningless (beauty, goodness, health, wealth, status, career, success, etc.). Solomon describes these pursuits as “vanity” or “meaningless.” The Hebrew word he uses is “hevel,” which literally means “vapor” or “smoke.” Pursuing these meaningless things is like “smoke” – they may appear as though they have substance, but when you try to grasp them, they quickly vanish. They are temporary and fleeting – like a vapor which appears for but a moment then disappears.

This being the case, Solomon proposes the key question of life: Why use your life, energy, and emotions in pursuit of  “hevel”? Why not rather pursue things with eternal value and substance? Here in chapter 2, he contrasts two of those “things” – wisdom and foolishness. He decided to compare wisdom (which he considers “light”) and foolishness (“darkness”). His observation was this: since every human being shares the same fate – all are headed for the same ending (death, the grave) – then doesn’t it make more sense to pursue those things which will survive beyond the grave?

He emphasizes that there is more to gain in wisdom than in folly. The word “wisdom” means to be sensible, judicious, clever, prudent, and shrewd. This word is often used of a skilled warrior in battle – one who is well equipped and carries out his battles with strategy and skillful tactics. In the same way, we must look at life as a battle for eternity. We must spend our lives, energy, and emotions on fighting this battle with skill and wisdom. There is eternal life to be gained by those who do so. There is nothing but “the grave” for those who don’t. He goes on to say that light is better than darkness for the wise can see where they are going, but fools just grope around in the dark.

Jesus shared this same viewpoint in Luke 12:20-21 where he asked this question about a man who had spent his life in pursuing an “abundance of possessions” – “This night your soul is required of you, and the things you have prepared, whose will they be? So is the one who lays up treasure for himself and is not rich toward God.”

Throughout Ecclesiastes, Solomon struggles deeply with this question of meaningless vs meaningful pursuits and finally reaches this conclusion: “Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone’s duty. God will judge us for everything we do, including every secret thing, whether good or bad.” (Ecclesiastes 12:13) It is important to plan and prepare for your future in this life, but it is vastly more important to plan and prepare for your future in eternity.

March 18 -- "The Rod of Reproof"

 Today’s Reading: Proverbs 29

"The Rod of Reproof"

The Bible has much to say about parenting and raising children. Not the least of which is that parents have the solemn responsibility to raise their child in the ways of the Lord, teaching them His truth, and guiding their soul to eternal life. One of the greatest blessings a parent can receive is when they look at their child and see that they are walking with the Lord. As the Apostle John wrote, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in truth” (3 John 1:4).

One means of guiding our children into the ways of the Lord is to correct them and reprove them when they get off track. According to Proverbs 29:15, doing so gives them wisdom. There are nearly 40 verses in the Bible about the need to administer the “rod” when a child acts improperly or rebelliously. The literal understanding of this is to “spank” the child as the means of correction.

In our modern world, many reasons are given for not spanking a child. Most of those reasons assume that spanking is an act of anger or cruelty. Spanking, they say, is too harsh and abusive. They teach that discipline can be administered in various other ways such as reasoning with the child, giving them a “timeout,” or withholding some form of enjoyment (e.g. “screen time”). While these forms of correction do have their place, there are situations where it is not possible to reason with a child. In these situations, the Bible advises the rod of reproof as a means of correction and admonishment, especially when the child sets his/her will in direct defiance of the parent.

It is needful to balance these things with our children, and again, only the Lord can give the necessary wisdom. Some children have very tender consciences and are far more sensitive to reproof than others. They may need relatively few actual punishments. Others are born with strong wills and, when they are young, may need rather frequent visits from the “rod” to teach them.

Always keep in mind that any form of correction must always be done in love and with the motivation of guiding your child to be a happy and obedient follower of Christ. Discipline must never be done in anger or because you’ve “lost your temper.” And, most importantly, every visit from the “rod” must be followed immediately by genuine forgiveness by the parent and reconciliation with the child.

This is how God corrects us because He loves us. And, like Him, this is how we show love to our children.